Ok, so skip the Rock and Roll...
It's now all about avoiding stress and abiding by structure.
I've been given my rules, and if they are not broken in any fashion by either side, then in 30 days minor privilages will be returned.... of the vanilla communication variety.
This was the best I could do... and short of becoming annoing and possibly loosing all chance, I had to take this offering.
I will say this now though... I may be stepping out of my place... but if either side decides to create problems for the other, I will vanish. I will do this of my own free will, I will pull everything off the net. I will leave NO way to trace me. I know how to do this.
I'm not worth anyone ruining anyone else's life over, or causing misery over... and I will simply disappear.